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I don't know what to do my life is completely messed up. I am a 30 year old male and have been diagnosed with anxiety and dysthymia after going to see a psychologist late in I was attending regular sessions up until early this year as I wasn't getting anywhere and felt my psychologist got fed up with me not doing what he told me to do to improve things.
I have one good friend who I've been close to for about 12 years now but we don't see each other as often as we used to due to the busy life he lives work, pursuing a music career, and long time partner.
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I have never had many friends throughout my life, in school I wasn't very popular and cool to be with and felt I wasn't really accepted by people I hung out with after high school.
From the age of ahng about 25 I had a small number of friends but we just drifted apart and also I cut some out of my life, and feel I have been shunned. I don't know why I have never had a group of friends. I am shy but there are other shy types with wirh. I am kind to people and down to earth so I just can't work out why Wjth don't attract friends.
I have former friends and people I have met on Facebook, they are pretty much internet friends. I can see how most have gotten married, had kids, are engaged, bought a home. Pretty much everyone is getting on with life and I am stuck and have been stuck going nowhere for years now.
I have never had a girlfriend and still live at home with my elderly parents as I could not afford to move into a house I bought 3 years ago. I am renting it out and was hoping to find a higher paying job so I could afford to live in my home but I failed at all attempts.
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I am also estranged from one of my sisters, haven't spoken in years. My other sister isn't good at listening and giving advice on these matters, her husband told me to ''stop seeing my psychologist and just get on with it''.
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His view is that ''misery breeds company''. So I feel I can't really rely on him having been disappointed at his advice. I couldn't mention this earlier as I ran out of characters.
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I fear letting people down so I withdraw, my former colleague always asked me to go clubbing and getting drunk but I am not into that. This is part of the reason my former group of friends ditched me because I never wanted to go clubbing with them.
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Hi Ianian, thank you for your reply. I will hopefully be in the right frame of mind and reply to say I will go.
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I guess this is part of the problem in not having friends. However once I have been friends with someone for a while I can talk okay, it's just new people or people I don't know too well.
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No friends, girlfriend, job, living at home at I live with complete shame every day and struggle to face my estranged sister when she comes over to my parents place, she's already called me a loser because I don't have friends or a girlfriend.
I often leave the room or house when she's here as I can feel her looking at me with disgust and also amusement of what a pathetic creature I am, like she's finding it funny. I forgot to say thank you to Beyond Blue team for their kind email. I am not sure if I can reply to the email so I am doing so here.
Beyond Blue team, my psychologist kept telling me to join a social networking website to meet new people and hopefully make friends. I could not bring myself to do this because I feel like a Lonely bored looking for someone to hang out with wolf loser out looking for friends, it makes me feel more depressed. Plus I find that people don't care for others, everyone is selfish to me, it is hard to meet caring and understanding people who won't let you down.
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Oloking often lack the motivation to get up and out to exercise. Also, he kept pushing me to go for walks along the beach, this made me feel worse as I felt so alone in the big city and seeing everyone at the beach with their partners and friends.
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My previous manager and one of the senior managers drove me to the hospital after I broke down at work and said I was feeling suicidal. One of the mental health staff at the hospital strongly recommended I get on medication to give me a hanv start'' to enable me to do Lone,y things my psychologist recommended and also to ditch my psychologist for another one. My psychologist told me this would not be beneficial, he Sex finder Humboldt pressure me to stick with him just told me that I would need to start all over Lonely bored looking for someone to hang out with and it would cost me money starting again as any new psychologist would need to get to know my story from scratch.